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Almost every woman I’ve worked with over the past

Almost every woman I’ve worked with over the past couple of decades is high-functioning. All have done well in their chosen careers or life paths, yet still they put themselves under a lot of pressure.And so often they feel not good enough.A while ago, I wrote about how this shows up in many different ways, and how I believe these patterns are often linked to our stress responses (I’ve included a link to the article at the top of my bio).We fight by pushing ourselves to burnout, comparing to others or putting ourselves under extreme pressure.We flee by walking away from opportunities to shine, by not pushing ourselves to apply for a promotion or market our businesses with confidence.We freeze when we procrastinate, and we fawn when we fall into people-pleasing – not setting boundaries and putting everyone else’s needs ahead of our own.If this sounds like you, you might notice that you have a preference for one or more of these patterns, but it could be that you oscillate between a couple of them.The first step in moving beyond these limiting behaviours is to raise your awareness.This week, start to notice when your ‘not good enough’ story is running the show. Catch yourself before taking on another commitment. Acknowledge one of your achievements. Do something imperfectly and let that be okay.But most importantly, pause that self-critical voice and replace it with words of kindness. Remind yourself that you don't need to be perfect to be loveable and you don't need to burn yourself out to be worthy. ✨️#selfworth #personalgrowth #mindfulness #selfawareness #stressresponse #womensupportingwomen #confidence #innerwork #personaldevelopment #boundaries #peoplepleasing #burnoutrecovery #emotionalwellbeing #growthmindset

Anxious thinking can sometimes feel like it’s help

Anxious thinking can sometimes feel like it’s helpful because it creates a brief sense of certainty or control.But over time, your mind learns to keep returning to the same habit, not because something is wrong with you, but because your nervous system is trying to regulate, and the pattern has been reinforced.What helps is not forcing thoughts to stop, but changing your relationship to them.Noticing what’s happening.
Stepping back from your thinking.
Coming into your body and your immediate experience.
Meeting yourself with kindness.
Choosing habits that support you.And over time, interrupting the patterns that keep the habit of worry going.Eventually, small shifts in awareness alongside movement and reducing mental overload can make it easier to step out of anxious cycles when they arise. Giving you more space to feel grounded and at peace. ✨️#overthinking #anxiousmind #mindfulnesspractice #nervoussystemregulation #innercalm #selfawareness #selfcompassion #mindfulness#healinganxiety #emotionalwellbeing #mindfulliving #innerpeace

“The goal of life is to make your heartbeat match

“The goal of life is to make your heartbeat match the beat of the universe.” Joseph CampbellHow lovely this sounds to me, and I hope to you too.An invitation to venture out into the stillness of sunrise, and go a little more slowly this week. ✨️#mindfulness #natureheals #slowdown #innerpeace #presentmoment #selfconnection

Recently, I wrote an article about genuine fulfilm

Recently, I wrote an article about genuine fulfilment and where it really comes from.For me, it's rarely the big milestones. More often it’s the small moments – spending time with the people I love, finding a brilliant new author, baking a batch of cookies*, walking in nature, sharing my love of meditation.I’ve included a link to the article in my bio.And I’d love to know – what are some of the small moments that bring you joy? ✨* If you're wondering, these are the utterly divine Cranberry, Oat and White Chocolate Biscuits by @ottolenghi. I bake these and @belindajefferyfood Classic Shortbread recipe on repeat.#everydayfulfilment #simplejoys #mindfulliving #smallmoments #findingjoy #slowliving

I’ve been thinking a lot about midlife lately and

I’ve been thinking a lot about midlife lately and some of the best things this stage of life brings that aren’t always celebrated.It's a time when we come to know ourselves more deeply, and if we use those insights wisely, they can make all the difference in the direction we choose for the next few decades.We can stop and ask ourselves, what have the last twenty or thirty years taught me? Where in my life am I most energised? And which parts of my life or work, most drain me?You might find it helpful to journal on one or more of the following prompts.✨ What achievements or experiences am I proud of, even if no one else noticed?✨ When do I feel most energised?✨ What patterns, habits, or roles no longer serve me?✨ When do I feel most able to be the person I am today?✨ What would I like to carry into the next chapter of my life?You don’t need to have answers to all of these questions. Sometimes just opening the conversation with yourself is the start of a new kind of clarity.#midlifereflection #midlifewomen #careerclarity #selfdiscovery #mindfulmidlife

✨ Free Webinar Series for Therapists on Insight Ti

✨ Free Webinar Series for Therapists on Insight Timer ✨Starting next week on @insighttimer, I’m hosting a webinar in a new series designed exclusively for therapists. These short sessions bring together personal practice, expert training, and clinical integration.Join me for a practice to help you move beyond your 'not good enough' story and interact with yourself with more compassion. I'll include resources and practices you can share with your clients.If you're in Australia: Melbourne Time Wednesday morning (11–11:30am)
If you're in the US: Pacific Time Tuesday afternoon (4–4:30pm)Join via the link in my bio. I’d love to see you there. 🙏#mindfulnesspractice #selfacceptance #selfcompassion #insighttimer

“Pretend you’re 90 for ten seconds. Stand in the d

“Pretend you’re 90 for ten seconds.
Stand in the doorway of your own life.
Look at your home.
Look at the people you share it with - the shoes by the door, the cup in the sink, the sound of someone in the next room.
Notice what you scroll past: the smell of coffee, the warm shower,
the quiet pause before the day begins.
One day, all of this will feel sacred.Most of us stop hearing our own lives.
We get so used to the song we forget it ever moved us.
You don’t need a bigger life.
You need to hear this one again.
The song didn’t stop.
You just stopped listening.We treat ordinary days like they’re disposable
until they’re the only days we want back.
Your brain is wired to get bored by the ordinary.
Hedonic adaptation blinds you to what’s right in front of you.
It convinces you the highlight reels are your real life
while the real thing is happening quietly in the background.”-excerpt from @itsbrainsurgery post (shared by the lovely Julia from @wotama_au).#mindfulness #womenswellbeing #slowdown #presentmoment #innerpeace #emotionalhealth

A big thank you to @thenook_mornington for these g

A big thank you to @thenook_mornington for these generous words and for creating such a beautiful space for last week's mindfulness and self-compassion workshop. 🙏…..We were so grateful to host a beautiful workshop on Sunday hosted by author and coach @kate.james.au . It was a gentle morning to slow down, rest, and reconnect with the principles of mindfulness and self-compassion. Kate created such a warm, welcoming space and a truly special experience.@kate.james.au will be hosting another workshop at The Nook on Sunday, 3rd May, 2026. Tickets are available via Kate's Instagram or website.We can't wait to host you again.
io Swipe to see all of the beautiful images captured at Kate's workshop on Sunday.Thanks so much for sharing and choosing our space @kate.james.au
If you're looking for a blank canvas venue for your next workshop or celebration, get in touch.#melbourneworkshops #morningtoneventspace #mindfulnessworkshop #morningtonworkshop #Mornington

Lately I’ve been making an effort to start the day

Lately I’ve been making an effort to start the day slowly — before my mind fills with tasks and noise. While we were in Inverloch last week, Oscar was happy to join me.We went walking before sunrise and discovered unexpected joy when we met the local kangaroo families. ✨#slowliving #morninglight #naturemoments #findingjoy #mindfulmoments #simplepleasures #australiannature #grandparentlife

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